Sister steals sibling's credit card and charges $6,000 for all-inclusive resort in Aruba, she gets caught and states sibling "owes her" for watching her dog a couple of times, sibling says: 'They arrested her the next day'

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    [Am I wrong] for pressing charges after my sister stole my credit card for a $6K vacation, then told police I 'owed her' for dog-sitting?

    Close-Up Shot of a Woman Holding a Credit Card and Smartphone, and one dog including 'She actually thought she was entitled to my money'
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    My sister stole my credit card and charged six thousand dollars for a vacation to Aruba, and when I called the police she actually tried to tell them I owed her the money.
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    I found out when my credit card company called about suspicious activity. A flight to Aruba for two adults and three kids, plus an all- inclusive resort package.
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    I told them it wasn't me and they transferred me to fraud. That's when I checked my wallet and my card was gone.
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    I knew immediately. My sister had been at my apartment two days before to "borrow" my steam cleaner.
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    She has three kids under ten and her house is always a disaster. I let her in, went to grab the cleaner from the closet, and she must have taken it right out of my purse.
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    I called her first. Wanted to give her a chance to fix it before I did anything serious.
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    She answered all cheerful. "Hey, what's up?" "Did you take my credit card?" Silence. Then, "I was going to tell you." My stomach dropped.
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    "Tell me what? That you stole from me?" "I didn't steal anything," she said, and her voice got defensive.
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    "You owe me." "I owe you?" "I've been watching your dog every time you go out of town.
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    Dogs waiting for pet sitter
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    For free. Do you know what boarding costs? | looked it up, it's like fifty dollars a day.
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    You've been gone at least ten times this year, that's-" "That's not even close to six thousand dollars, and you never said you wanted money!" | was shaking.
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    "You said you loved having him. You said your kids loved playing with him." "Well I changed my mind.
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    And you make way more than me, you can afford it. I have three kids and my husband's hours got cut and we haven't had a real vacation in four years.
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    The kids deserve this." I couldn't believe what I was hearing. "So you just decided to steal from me." "It's not stealing if you owe me." "I'm calling the police." She laughed.
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    Actually laughed. "No you won't. Mom and dad would kil you. You know how they are about family." I hung up and called the police right then.
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    The officer who took my report was really nice about it. Asked if I wanted to press charges and I said yes.
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    He said because it was over five hundred dollars it would be a felony. I said I understood.
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    They arrested her the next day. At her house, in front of her kids. I know because my mom called me screaming
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    Man In Handcuffs behind back
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    "How could you do this to your sister? To those babies?" "She stole six thousand dollars from me, mom." "She made a mistake!
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    She's struggling! And now she's going to jail because of you!" "She committed a crime." "We're family!
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    You work this out between yourselves, you don't get the police involved!" She was crying. "Her kids are hysterical.
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    Do you know what you've done?" My dad got on the phone. His voice was cold.
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    "Drop the charges." "No." "Drop them or you're not our daughter anymore. We will not have a child who would do this to family." "She literally stole from me." "And you're sending her to prison.
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    Over money. What kind of person does that?" I tried to explain about the felony threshold, about how she showed zero remorse, about how she actually thought she was entitled to my money.
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    He wouldn't hear it. "You have one week to drop the charges. If you don't, don't bother coming to Thanksgiving.
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    Or Christmas. Or anything else. You'll be dead to us." My sister's been calling from different numbers because I blocked her.
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    Leaving voicemails about how I'm ruining her life, how her kids are asking why mommy might go away, how could I be so cruel over something so small.
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    Six thousand dollars isn't small to me. I'm not rich. That was supposed to be my emergency fund.
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    Now it's gone and even though the credit card company is investigating, it's frozen while they do.
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    But my whole family is against me. My parents won't answer my calls unless it's to ask if I've dropped the charges.
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    My aunt sent me a long text about forgiveness and how family is forever. My grandmother said I should be ashamed.
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    My sister's court date is in three weeks. The prosecutor said because she has no prior record she'll probably get probation and have to pay restitution, but it'll still be a felony conviction.
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    That stays with you. Part of me feels sick about it. Those kids didn't do anything wrong.
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    But the other part of me is furious that everyone expects me to just eat six thousand dollars because we share DNA.
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    She could have asked. I probably would have helped if she'd asked. But she didn't ask.

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